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01/14/2009 at 5:45 am #1727556
this hobby has come into my life at the perfect time. about a year and a half ago, i was going through some troubling times. being a young father of three daughters, going through a divorce and not getting much help from their mother in helping raise them, i went to my mom. she had helped all that she could. i would get the girls up and ready at 4 am every day to drop them off at my mom’s house since she would watch them every day that i would work. i had been getting used to this schedule, and so were they. now a lot of the time 3 tired girls under the age of 5 didnt want to cooperate at 4 in the morning.. then came geocaching… it started taking away these feelings i had going though my troubled times, it almost made me forget about them completely, and it made me look at the world in a whole new way.
i had known about the hobby from my dad “team roman geoskis” back in my high school days, but didnt really get interested in it, i guess you can say i was more interested in making babies. well back to the story, every morning i would tell the girls that if they would cooperate, i would take them geocaching after i picked them up from work.. it started out to be a daily thing for us. they loved it. well, after a dryspell last year of 150 days or so, i started getting back into it..
i started loving it more and more. sooner or later, their mother came out of her binge and wanted to be a part of their life, which i was all about to begin with. so she has been taking them half the time during the week, and i have noticed that whenever i dont have the girls, all i want to do is go geocaching. sure, work and other things get in the way. but it’s like that is all i want to do. i sometimes have to hold back from myself and think, is geocaching in this blizzard a good idea? sure it is, well maybe it isnt. tomorrow is suppose to be really cold out, but i am still thinking, “should i go out and reach my 200 mark?”, i had just finished 2 puzzles (with some help), that are close to home.
it is such a great hobby, since i had been doing it (religously), i had gotten 5 other people to pick up a gps. it is still hard to get 3 kids out in the woods looking for a micro, but i cant wait till they get old enough that i will have trouble catching up with them. ahh, geocaching, im glad im young, cause i have many years ahead of me.
01/14/2009 at 4:13 pm #1900275First off all let be be the first to say THANK YOU for being a stand-up father. In this age when fatherhood seems to have become an option, it’s great to see MEN willing to make a difference in their child’s life.
As for caching, it’s helped me to get back into the shape I was in in High School, or at least close to it anyway. It also help to bring the family together. It’s another way to spend more quality time, but it also provides an escape on those rare occasions when I’d just like time to myself. I just wish I had more time to cache. Winter is only second to Fall as my favorite caching seasons go, and I haven’t logged a single find since winter started this year.
Now I’m going to find the time to do so.
01/15/2009 at 12:21 am #1900276I stumbled upon geocaching reading an article about it, and then forgot about it until I saw a workshop on getting started. Then it was a matter of buying the GPSr and getting out there. Unfortunately, no one in my current circle of friends is interested or has the time to join in the fun, but I am finding a whole new set of folks devoted to the sport online, and even discovering people I know who already cache. It gets me outside a little more, and I am not real outdoorsy. And I am learning more about technology, sometimes by necessity. I enjoy the search itself, and even solving puzzles. I spend more time on the computer than I would like, reading these forums and finding my next caching targets. And since I am not one to brave the elements, I do find myself missing it now that we are below zero. Usually my hobbies wax and wane, but geocaching is something I think about every day.
01/15/2009 at 7:46 pm #1900277I found out about geocaching while searching for campgrounds already had a legend gps so I typed in cors and away I went I used to do very little durring layoff,winter got hooked started planting,finding and exploring new areas net a lot of new freinds me and my girls have a great time lost about 40 pounds Im hooled about 120 hide and just got my 445 find and it was a balmy -19 what a hoot for a ftf
01/16/2009 at 1:07 am #1900278If it were not for geocaching, I’d be normal ………
01/16/2009 at 1:45 am #1900279Oh Come on Now Marc. I wouldn’t go that far! You Normal?
01/16/2009 at 2:13 am #1900280i find it hard to believe marc could pass for normal…
if it weren’t for geocaching I wouldn’t really be passionate about any hobby. renewing my interest in hobbies in general has sparked much more activity in other hobbies as well.
if it weren’t for geocaching I would still be an inattentive driver who didn’t wear a seatbelt with a perfect driving record.
i would say it’s changed me for the better.
my mother in law “gave me geocaching” for a birthday present. she gave me a magellan and a newspaper article and printout from geocaching.com. My wife and her mom regret that present to this day 😛
01/16/2009 at 3:25 am #1900281@K0rpl wrote:
Oh Come on Now Marc. I wouldn’t go that far! You Normal?
Yes, when compared to the likes of YOU !
01/16/2009 at 3:26 am #1900282Hmmm…for starters, if not for geocaching I would not be 110 pounds lighter (not that I lost all that weight through geocaching, but geocaching spurred my desire to be more healthy and someday be fit). Before I started geocaching I stayed home a lot. I had just purchased a Nintendo GameCube and would have become just a gamer, I’m sure. I honestly only used the cube a few times and now it sits, dusty, in the closet. I also think I’m more social from geocaching — I’m sort of introverted. I definitely have more friends through geocaching.
Bec
01/16/2009 at 3:54 am #1900283If it were not for geocaching:
-Our kids wouldn’t be able to talk about dad:
Hanging upside down in a tree in a “surreal” attempt to retrieve a cache
Nearly falling out of another tree in an attempt to retreive a non-“FTF”
Climbing to the top of a 40 foot pine tree to get a cache. (Do you see a theme here???)
Portaging them through the swamp on his back because he thought there was a shortcut that way. (And doing it twice, on different caches.)-We would have simply wasted our time lounging on the beach in the Carribean rather than going looking for geocaches. 8)
-We would know little about dozens of different types of creative and amazing puzzles that have expanded our thinking.
-We’d have about $1,000 that we wouldn’t have spent on cache containers and supplies that went into 180+ caches and we could have invested that money in the stock market and…oh, never mind.
-We wouldn’t know 1/10th of the local places we have discovered that are real gems.
-We’d have dozens fewer new friends.
-We wouldn’t be able to spot rural cemeteries on sight. From miles away.
-We would not have a scrapbooks and minds full of great family memories.
On the Left Side of the Road...01/16/2009 at 3:57 am #1900284@-cheeto- wrote:
my mother in law “gave me geocaching” for a birthday present. she gave me a magellan and a newspaper article and printout from geocaching.com. My wife and her mom regret that present to this day 😛
What? They now know that they should have given ya a Garmin? 😛 😉 😆
01/16/2009 at 4:04 am #1900285What? They now know that they should have given ya a Garmin?
End up buying one of those myself last christmas. This christmas I asked for a garmin nuvi for navigating and she got me a nextar. I guess some things never change. lol
Naw she regrets it because my wife complains to her that “he’s geocaching, (long pause) again…”
01/17/2009 at 4:34 pm #1900286Well…unlike most of you folks, my family and I are still in the “just getting started” stage. To date we’ve logged 23 finds. One goal I want to achieve before the end of 2009 is getting to #100. I/we don’t get to cache as often as many of you do, so when we do get to go, we like to make a day of it. Hopefully we’ll get out a little more often this year and that goal of #100 won’t be too difficult to achieve.
Anyway…getting back to how this has changed me – In the short time I’ve been caching, I’ve come to appreciate my surroundings even moreso than I did before. Just since last summer, I’ve toured so many parks and woods that I always knew were there, but never bothered to explore. I’m quickly developing a deeper appreciation for this wonderful creation that God made called “Earth”, and I’m hoping to pass that appreciation along to both of my kids.
Also, like Handstand, I hope that this is making me a better father. Not that I’ve ever been a “bad dad” by any means. We’re pretty much a “normal” family. Wife and I are married, and we have our own kids, not “hers” and “mine”. We raise our kids together with a pretty equal partnership.
However, I will admit to previously being a little more “hands off”. That is, I never spent a lot of time playing with my kids or doing things with them. My wife always seemed to be the one who ended up doing that stuff, both from the their desire (momma’s boys) as well as mine (just too many other things I’d rather do).
I had been desperately searching for something that my oldest son and I could do together. Knowing that he was at an age (9) where boys love to search for “treasure”, I began reading about geocaching. It was like someone above shook me and said “here’s what you’ve been looking for”. Instantly I knew that regardless of how much it cost to get started, this is what I had to do to get closer to my son.
I bought a Garmin 60Cx from Cabela’s, and loaded up on all sorts of hiking gear. I did all of this without telling him, thinking that even if he showed no interest, it might be something I could do on my own. Imagine the thrilling feeling I had in my heart when I told him about this new hobby I wanted to try, and how I thought he’d enjoy it as well. Well, all he needed to hear was the word “treasure”, and he was hooked!! While this is mainly a hobby that just he and I can enjoy, my wife and our other little son (who’s not yet 5) have tagged along with us on a few occasions. I’m hoping that at the very least I can continue this hobby with him if/when my oldest son’s interest begins to wane or is replaced by cars and girls.
So in the end, like Handstand, I think this hobby has helped me become a better father, and there is no better feeling than that.
01/17/2009 at 5:09 pm #1900287How it has changed us, well my wife reconnected with a former neighbor of hers (by a fluke she saw her pic on GC) and we ended up going to South Carolina to visit her and did the Delorme Challenge.
We have found many great spots we never knew existed in Wisconsin. We would have never discovered St. George, Utah (got sick of gambling on vacation in Vegas so we went do a new state), now we are considering moving there
We would have never found a reason to walk backwards up the downtown street of Waukesha (hey is very cold) during the Waukesha Jambore Event.
We would have never meet some of the great people we have in other parts of the state who are as passoniate about this as we are.
Before caching winter time was stay at home and vegitate, now it is hey we only need 5 more for 1200 and there is a new 5/5 published, and yes we are going to try01/19/2009 at 6:02 pm #1900288I have waited as long as could to make this post. I was hoping a couple extra days and I could say geocaching helped me become a millionaire. 🙂
The following hasn’t really changed my life permantly, but it did make an impact in 08’…
Normally my wife and I get a long great, but last year I can think of 2 times geocaching put me in the dog house. The first time my wife thought I was kidnapped (alleged kidnappers shall remain nameless) I told her I who I was going with, but that didn’t matter. Hours later I finally returned. It wouldn’t have been a big deal but I abandoned her at a park far away from home (she did have the RV to relax in when needed).
The second time I took a relatively new to geocaching family on a long (it was suppose to be short) hike in Governor dodge park. I was taking them to the cave. I thought it was about a mile long hike (I just did it 2 months earlier at the WGA campout). Turns out it was more like 2 or 3 miles. We had 3 GPS’ in a group of 7 (4 adults 3 kids) for our adventure. By the time we got on the final trail to the cave my wife and 2 members of the other family were done. They wanted to go back. So I told them they could continue on the loop or turn around. I figured we would catch up to them before they got to the entry/exit point. (I guess I shouldn’t have gone after the second cache on top of the cliff). I also didn’t realize the loop had two entry points. Needless to say I sent them away without a gps. What happened next… they got lost (trail markings suck at this park), It was Hot (very hot) and they had no water or food. Thankfully we found them before we had to call in a rescue team. I don’t know for sure how many miles they hiked. All I know I was in the dog house once again.
You are probably thinking big deal. Now reread the story knowing my wife was pregnant. She was six months pregnant when the second oooops occured.
Thankfully this story has a happy ending… The baby arrived in Oct happy and healthy. I am going to assume the long hike without water on a very hot day in July didn’t do any damage. I just have to figure out how to ease my wife and child into caching this year. Hopefully too much damage has not been done.
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